‘Lost&Found – People Edition’ at a huge carnival party without a working phone.
We were sitting in the tram and laughing about how a friend thought she had ordered an Ukulele off of Wish but actually just ordered a Ukulele strap
Exploring the Spectrum of Open Relationships | Part 2
Just like every monogamous couple is different from the next one there is not one single form of a poly-relationship. Talking to friends and acquaintances, I have gotten
Pros and Cons of Monogamy | Part 1
I am currently in a happy relationship, so maybe it is the wrong time to write about polygamy and polyamory, or maybe the timing couldn't be better. I
Some Thoughts on Sex Work
There are these kinds of nights where I'm hanging out with friends, chilling (probably stoned) and someone starts asking morally ambiguous questions, like 'Would you watch a politician
A Surreal Reunion
It's been a shit day coming home for Christmas. Every possible thing to go wrong did go wrong. However, as a believer in fate, I also believe that
Saying Goodbye
We truly are heroes of procrastination when it comes to having conversations about the future. We always knew that the day I stay in Berlin while you fly
My BF dared me…
I don’t remember how this happened but I'm certain we weren't sober. Anyway, around 10PM my man dared me to write a blog post about this night. Like,
Check out my Vagina!
Hey there. I am currently getting ready for my time in Berlin and therefore don't have a lot of free time. Anyway, I want to share a quick update.
About Age Gap Dating
This short story is a continuation of a past article. When I first met you, I truly didn’t care about how old you were. We met in the last gay
Breaking up what hasn’t really started
A couple of weeks ago a colleague of mine asked me how many relationships I've been in in the past. I wasn't sure: in a world of casual
Something New [Short Story]
Not a minute goes by without thoughts rushing through my head. But when I lay my head in the crevasse that forms above your collarbone when you raise your shoulders,
When is the right time to tell him how fucked up you are?
This article was originally published as a guest post on GayRepublic. When you start seeing someone new, you alone are responsible for the picture another person will have of
I am not a Monster | Part 3
When I first got the diagnosis, I fell apart a little bit. I am not the kind of person who cries very often, not because I’m ashamed but because
Pseudo-accurately calculating how many potential partners live near me.
What some of you might not know (even though I randomly blurt it out constantly), is that I have a master’s degree in psychology. Psychology isn’t all that
How to Have the Perfect First Gay Date
This is a guest author post by Peter Minkoff. When first dates are concerned, I am never fully looking forward to those. First of all, I am extremely excited
Some Thoughts on Oral Sex
What is sex? Simple, you say? It's more complicated than you may think! So, let's talk about sex. (haha)
Being terrified of HIV
The HIV spread of the 80s may be over but many gay men today are still terrified of the virus. It’s an uncomfortable topic but I think it’s
Relationship Expiration Date
Some relationships are meant to last and some are just fun times with an expiration date. That doesn't mean you won't get attatched to that person though. Let
About Last Night [Poem]
Last night I saw you In the club For a moment, I was happy Until I wasn’t I wanted to talk Felt weird not to But you didn’t Not with words But your eyes spoke volumes A
We’re all gross, weird and twisted freaks
If we're all freaks with a buttload of baggae, what is there to lose when being honest about our negative side with new partners? Let me elaborate on
Tinder is a game show. First price is a penis.
Tinder, the spinning wheel of genitalia-fortune! What could go wrong, using an app that let's you label potential partners in the categories of dateable and not dateable
Letter to My Ex | Part 2
I wish this was easier to write. I wish I would have gathered my thoughts but I’m still all over the place. Maybe that’s why I need to
Letter To My Ex | Part 1
I'm still pretty confused about my recent breakup. Probably normal after 6 years. Here is why I need to write it down.