Going on an Island for the 3rd Date
I have done quite a few crazy things in my life, but going on an island with someone I only had two dates prior must come right after
12-Hour Romance
Five years ago I decided against staying in a 7-year long-term relationship. Lots of drama, short and long romances later, I can summarize that I haven't regretted making
Across the Line [Poem]
On the horizon there is a line. It shows me how far I can go, what I am willing to give up, how much I can take, how tall
Pros and Cons of Monogamy | Part 1
I am currently in a happy relationship, so maybe it is the wrong time to write about polygamy and polyamory, or maybe the timing couldn't be better. I
Some Thoughts on Sex Work
There are these kinds of nights where I'm hanging out with friends, chilling (probably stoned) and someone starts asking morally ambiguous questions, like 'Would you watch a politician
Finding Peace and Going Clubbing with OCD
Having OCD has been holding me back most of my adulthood. I can't even say what sucks most about it: feeling the need to wash my hands constantly,
My BF dared me…
I don’t remember how this happened but I'm certain we weren't sober. Anyway, around 10PM my man dared me to write a blog post about this night. Like,
About Age Gap Dating
This short story is a continuation of a past article. When I first met you, I truly didn’t care about how old you were. We met in the last gay
Breaking up what hasn’t really started
A couple of weeks ago a colleague of mine asked me how many relationships I've been in in the past. I wasn't sure: in a world of casual
When is the right time to tell him how fucked up you are?
This article was originally published as a guest post on GayRepublic. When you start seeing someone new, you alone are responsible for the picture another person will have of
About Gay Pride Berlin 2018
I've spent the past week at Berlin gay pride (or Christopher Street Day, whatever you wanna call it) and I wanted to write a quick post about Gay
Pseudo-accurately calculating how many potential partners live near me.
What some of you might not know (even though I randomly blurt it out constantly), is that I have a master’s degree in psychology. Psychology isn’t all that
Some Thoughts on Oral Sex
What is sex? Simple, you say? It's more complicated than you may think! So, let's talk about sex. (haha)
Relationship Expiration Date
Some relationships are meant to last and some are just fun times with an expiration date. That doesn't mean you won't get attatched to that person though. Let
We’re all gross, weird and twisted freaks
If we're all freaks with a buttload of baggae, what is there to lose when being honest about our negative side with new partners? Let me elaborate on
Gay Men Love to be Labelled
An insight on how gays use Labels to identify themselves.